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Shantel :: My Profile (780 views)
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Birthday

October 11

Location

Brooklyn

Languages

English

About Me

Very relax and outgoing. Glitter Graphics

Betty Boop Glitter Graphics

Interests

Shopping, go to the club, cooking, reading and surf the net.

Favorite Music

Mary J, Tyrese, Sizzla, Babyface, Jay-Z, Beyonce, Ciara, Sade, Seal, Vivian Green, Alicia Keys, Kanye West, Escape, R.Kelly, En Vouge, Monica, Aaliyah, Capleton, The Isley Brothers, Mariah Carey, Stephanie Mills, Fantasia, Beenie Man, Wyclef, Lil Wayne.
 

Favorite TV Shows

Greys Anatomy, CSI, CSI NY, CSI Miami, Wild 'n out, Girlfriends,The Game, ER, Flava Flava, I Love New York, 106 & park, Law & Order, House, Private Practice, Dr.G Medical Examiner, Anderson Cooper 360, Lost
 

Favorite Books

Black Boy,all of James Patterson and Zane books.
 

Favorite Quote

Yuh luckly.
 

Journal

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IF A MAN WANTS YOU... : Nov 9, 2007
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn`t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit)to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that`s not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can`t "be friends."
A friend wouldn`t mistreat a friend.
Don`t settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don`t stay because you think "it will get better."
You`ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who`ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn`t marry them when he got them pregnant,Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.
He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man`s behavior.
Change comes from within.
Don`t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else`s man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he`ll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn`t turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Don`t fully commit to a man who doesn`t give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
 

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Thanks for the birthday greeting :)
 
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thanks u so much for the birthday wishes. u have no idea how much that means to me.. thanks girl



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